Last night I started a 12 month plan. We have been working on year end stuff and our finances are a mess right now, he acted devastated (no money left for him to move out – true) But this is a 12 month mess. With diligent effort on my part, I can control what is being spent. I took away his all but 2 of his credit cards. He needs those for work travel.
I cannot control him going to eharmony or fuckbuddies .com.
I can control all the money so I can get out of this situation. I did not pay attention like I should have, and he is so impulsive with money.
I like having goals that are for me.
and wacky tabacky sounds fun!