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Lisa, I went to Weiss too. They did more damage than good. I have posted this before, but they sent us home with a ‘sex plan’ before either of us were tested for std’s. They were big on the codependency thing. They clicked a lot into religion and the man being the head of the household. I just couldn’t put up with their nonsense any more. After the 90 day polygraph I refused to ever go back there. Hopefully dr m will be better.
Somebody will eventually sue those SOB’s… They will fuck with the wrong person someday. I wish we could get some show like Sixty Minutes or whatever to do an undercover investigation type thing…..
Someone needs to throw themBS flag. Where are the women’s groups when you need them??
Lisa, Minwalla is nothing like that. He will not blame you at all for anything.
Trish said I also need to tell M about that so I will include it when I talk to him.
I believe it Bev, that M is not that way. It’s just that experience created a trigger all its own in me about SA therapist. He was a Sa too. There are also more things he said and did. It really contributed to the depth of the ptsd I have.I could punch that therapist’s lights out. That is possibly the worst abuse I have heard from a therapist. Lisa just know you are safe with Omar.
I always got the feeling at Weiss program that the therapists laughed at us behind our backs.
They were all very chummy with each other and did a lot of things after work together.
I felt like they were saying what a joke we all were and the dumbass guys who can’t keep it in their pants are willing to spend a lot of money for a ‘get out of jail free’ card.
T also “shared”with H that the head pastor who fired him had gone to elder(maybe) and told him about Tsexing with church members(I am guessing the women he was counseling as church staff counselor?) Sex activities and started bragging about how he could have sued pastor for it, very sick man.
Also told me I should forgive my H 70 times 7 every day….
Yes Liza heaving vomitSeriously, these folks are way overdue for some investigative journalism- a documentary, even, like they did for the pray the gay away camps.
That is awful, lisalife.
Well, from what we’ve heard here about Minwalla, you will be heard, and not mocked and abused. It’s about time, too. So glad you are going there.
I’m just thinking that when Minwalla completes his book he might get some press. If he does then I’m sure there will be an opportunity to talk about therapist abuse.
I have a call with Dr M today about me, my therapy needs. I am nervous and feel clueless about what to say thoughts are all jumbled today
……You will do fine. Your thoughts will come. Start from the beginning, keep it short and hit the high lites.
Kimberly, it is a 15 min call. The beginning
Was 25 years ago… I have 4 pages of notes. What do I start with?Just be honest. Tell him it all started 25 years ago and you are simply lost and confused and can’t think. Hit the bullet points about the discoveries of what you know and suspect.
He gets it.
Also Lisa, for real call Lili at PoSarc. She will speak with you over the phone and help you. She can help you get to a place where you are able to help yourself. It’s not perfect but it does help clear some of the fear and fog away.
I love Dr M. He said H is a tough case, prob Narc, will not let H snow him! Don’t hold my breath for breakthrough, and he will do his very best to get under the hood with H.
Said I have a severe ptsd due to H and horrendous therapist abuse. He laughed when I told him what h had been doing like he was practicing for intensive.
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