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I have been filling up the unit since June or July. Never said A was an observant individual. The use was available today. He did notice there are not many clothes in my closet. I told him I put them in storage when he Called me a pig and slum lord.
He did make the statement to me that he knows that I am going to put the pictures up in my new place. I didnt respond definitely yes or no.
SOT….do u take the apartment that was to become available today?? Do you have somewhere to move the stuff you are storing? Finding the underwear…that should help when u feel frightened and soppy. I mean really. Why doesn’t he just f–k them on your dining room table in front of you and the kids? He has absolutely NO RESPECT. You keep going. You are on the right path even though I know you are afraid. x
First of all, Nap, that is beyond disgusting. Just when you think you have heard it all!
SOT – as for the undies…they didn’t just appear out of thin-air. They were in your h’s things for some reason. Don’t even bring it up to him, just store them in a plastic bag with all your other evidence. Gross, I realize, but you never know if having that piece of evidence will come in handy. Do not repeat my mistake and tell him about what you found…I found a t-shirt from a local community college in my h’s luggage that reaked of smoke. I knew it wasn’t mine and certainly wasn’t his. When I did bring it up to him a few weeks later, at first he denied it existed, then he said it was his, then he said it was probably one of our daughters (ages 7 & 9 at the time). He really had no good explanation but his denial of it being “hers” was so convincing. A few weeks later, he claimed he had used it to masturbate to. I said, there wasn’t any “evidence” of masturbation. He said, he used just held it to be reminded of “her”. I said – “well that is gross & I don’t believe that but if it is true, that proves you are emotionally attached to her.” That sure backfired on him!
I agree with Lynn – when you open your eyes to what they really are, it’s amazing how much evidence does present itself. Don’t know if it’s carelessness and/or the fact that we are finally looking “under the covers” and not accepting what they tell us at face value. When I go in with the idea that I cannot believe a word he says, that is when the truth started revealing itself.
Christine how crazy for him to think you would be ok with him using the t shirt to masturbate with. It demonstrates how bad his behaviour was when the shirt behaviour is explained as low level/ acceptable.
Dear God, Christine. To be reminded of her? Who the f–k are these guys??? Who says that to their wife. Who does this stuff?? They are freaks and so low it is beyond comprehension. No wonder he ended up with a dead hooker in a van. You are SO, going to be better off without him. You know, sometimes the things they SAY are even sicker than the things they DO …and that is saying a Hell of a lot! Good grief.
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