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Tried to start this forum last Friday. Just wanted to let March know that I am (I’m sure we all are) wishing her the very best as she starts her life over. Hoping the trip is fabulous, and she finds a new peace and joy all her own.
I will post later today when I’m bored at work. For now, thanks again. I’m not sure how much in my life will actually change, seeing that we still live together. BUT, I can tell you that I’m AMAZED by the strength of a virtual community that feels as warm and real as any in-the-flesh I’ve ever known. You guys carried me through those proceedings, and if it hadn’t been for SOS, I don’t believe I’d have had the strength to file to begin with. It was a step I should have taken 3 years ago. By holding on so desperately to my sham marriage, I merely extended the sham. I don’t know what will happen next, but whatever it is will be REAL, and for now, I like the thought of being a free agent.
Yes, indeedy,
We do wish you a brilliant and comforting new life, in which you are safe, free, empowered, and creative. I’m not so sure you have any trouble with the last one, but sometimes we are less creative than we could be!Congratulations on finding your way through many difficult emotions and practical challenges. I know there is still heartache, and I think there always is. When you are ready to step out again, you will. We do this our own way and I, for one, trust you completely to find your own way and know it when you find it.
love, Diane.March,
I’m so happy you chose a REAL life. It feels good to be real.
Wishing you all the good things in life!
Love, NapDear March,
I feel this decision will change things for you…eventually. I think you are a remarkable woman…strong, smart, real, scrappy, so witty and of course sexy. Not a cardboard cut out but a living, breathing, fire cracker. I wish you a life full of joy and a life free of all that is so obviously beneath you. karen x
My goodness, how do I compete with these smart sisters?? Congratulations you hot Mama!
I do have to ask- cause I think I missed something…. (I’m in and out of the loop)…. You are still living together… So… What did you file? Are you actually divorced now? Is living together temporary? Are you in any way considering a future with him if he is committed to recovery? Just trying to catch up!! 🙂
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