Home discussions Sex Addiction You have to listen to this song! It says what many of us are feeling

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  • #4503
    kimberely
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    Not a huge fan of the dixie chicks but caught one of their songs today that really hit home……listen to “Not ready to make nice”….it’s almost inspiring I thought. Speaks my feelings in a nutshell!! And thats saying alot living in crazy town the last 5 years and all

    #31145
    flora
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    i know really, how rediculous is this of them asking this of us…so right…i’m not ready to make nice. But for me in therapy wiht my h, all they wanted to do was for me to make nice and get over it. No…i’m was not then ready make nice…and i guess now i may never will be. With exsah anyway…

    Flora

    #31146
    972
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    Makin Nice is what got me in this F’n mess to begin with!

    #31147
    kimberely
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    flora, you ain’t lying. I remember last year when we separated the therapist seemed eager for h to get home. I think bc he genuinely was seeking help immediately after kicking him out. Guess what? That ain’t happening this time and I may even say I’m not ready to make nice when it comes up!! All I know is that I feel he hasn’t really sufferered any consequences to all of this except having to tell his parents last Sat which was crushing at best for him to do and for them to hear. I’m riding this out as long as I need to in order to decide what I want to do, not what he or the therapist wants me to do.

    #31148
    kimberely
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    bev you aint lying!!

    #31149
    hadj608
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    Thank you for now. I love it! adding it to my ipod walking track. I walk faster to this one. A song about a sa.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9eiufpHm5s

    I am starting to really like angry rap music!

    Ladies we could so out do those guys with a rap song. They sing of pain and betrayal………they got nothing compared to us!

    #31150
    kimberely
    Member

    Just listen to words if you can…….. I love how it starts….. Forgive? Sounds good. Forget? I’m not sure I could. They say time heals everything but I’m still waiting. I’m through with doubt, there’s nothing left for me to figure out……

    This concludes my dj moment.

    #31151
    kimberely
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    hadjo608….I love it!!! It’s about time we started getting pissed and staying pissed. We’d probably make better choices!!!

    #31152
    hadj608
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    this is really sad/funny. when my h is being a jerk, my 16 year old starts playing this on the piano.

    he ruined so many people… we fought for 4 hours today. he still insists he never hurt me. how can he even think that. warped.

    #31153
    kimberely
    Member

    they will never understand they have hurt us until they decide to own their addiction and I mean truly own it and this is done by their actions which will not require words.

    #31154
    julie
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    Please listen to the song “beautiful” by Mercy Me..

    Days will come and you don’t have the strength…
    and all you hear is that you aren’t worth anything.
    Wondering if you ever could be loved
    and if they truly saw your heart, they’d see too much…. You are beautiful… You’re beautiful…….

    #31155
    ksondy
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    #31156
    march
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    #31157
    march
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    Heidi, your 16-year-old wins the prize.

    #31158
    harmony1
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    Ladies those songs helped to shed my tears (it has been so hard for me to cry, as my rage is just overwhelming)
    Crying help to purify the soul

    #31159
    silver-lining
    Participant

    Incidently, I have that Dixie Chicks CD. I love EVERY song on there!! It’s really good and I would highly recommend it! I have a hard time relating that song to SA, because I know what it was really written about. However, I have plenty of other SA songs to choose from, when I’m in the mood!!

    #31160
    hadj608
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    sl – funny side note. we have a hokey 4th of july parade every year on the island and vote for the floats. One year someones float was the chixie dicks and it was 3 old guys wearing long blonde wigs and dresses. It was so funny. – so if you need a float idea this year….

    #31161
    kimberely
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    Sl I figured there was another meaning to the song but it has so many phrases which were mirroring my feelings.

    #31162
    ksondy
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    for-now
    songs are a form of art… the only meaning that matters is the listners.

    #31163
    kimberely
    Member

    You want one for the hubby to hear?? The man I want to be by Chris Young….omg, we all long for those words….very powerful!

    #31164
    nap
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    The song that best describes the 25 years of marriage to my xSah is. ‘The Hokey Pokey’.

    #31165
    kimberely
    Member

    Ok Nap that made me laugh, you are so right.

    #31166
    ksondy
    Participant

    Nap, hahaha. How about ring around the rosie? After all, one of the beliefs is that it is referring to the plaque!

    #31167
    silver-lining
    Participant

    Not to mention their Rosie probably DOES have a ring around it….from being yanked on a gazillion times. Eeww…

    #31168
    silver-lining
    Participant

    Wait! Rosie is their hand!!! Still….a ring around the hand from gripping too right??? Double Eeww…

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