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March 17, 2012 at 2:25 am #4503kimberelyMember
Not a huge fan of the dixie chicks but caught one of their songs today that really hit home……listen to “Not ready to make nice”….it’s almost inspiring I thought. Speaks my feelings in a nutshell!! And thats saying alot living in crazy town the last 5 years and all
March 17, 2012 at 2:38 am #31145floraParticipanti know really, how rediculous is this of them asking this of us…so right…i’m not ready to make nice. But for me in therapy wiht my h, all they wanted to do was for me to make nice and get over it. No…i’m was not then ready make nice…and i guess now i may never will be. With exsah anyway…
Flora
March 17, 2012 at 3:08 am #31146972MemberMakin Nice is what got me in this F’n mess to begin with!
March 17, 2012 at 3:09 am #31147kimberelyMemberflora, you ain’t lying. I remember last year when we separated the therapist seemed eager for h to get home. I think bc he genuinely was seeking help immediately after kicking him out. Guess what? That ain’t happening this time and I may even say I’m not ready to make nice when it comes up!! All I know is that I feel he hasn’t really sufferered any consequences to all of this except having to tell his parents last Sat which was crushing at best for him to do and for them to hear. I’m riding this out as long as I need to in order to decide what I want to do, not what he or the therapist wants me to do.
March 17, 2012 at 3:13 am #31148kimberelyMemberbev you aint lying!!
March 17, 2012 at 3:20 am #31149hadj608ParticipantThank you for now. I love it! adding it to my ipod walking track. I walk faster to this one. A song about a sa.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j9eiufpHm5s
I am starting to really like angry rap music!
Ladies we could so out do those guys with a rap song. They sing of pain and betrayal………they got nothing compared to us!
March 17, 2012 at 3:23 am #31150kimberelyMemberJust listen to words if you can…….. I love how it starts….. Forgive? Sounds good. Forget? I’m not sure I could. They say time heals everything but I’m still waiting. I’m through with doubt, there’s nothing left for me to figure out……
This concludes my dj moment.
March 17, 2012 at 3:25 am #31151kimberelyMemberhadjo608….I love it!!! It’s about time we started getting pissed and staying pissed. We’d probably make better choices!!!
March 17, 2012 at 3:41 am #31152hadj608Participantthis is really sad/funny. when my h is being a jerk, my 16 year old starts playing this on the piano.
he ruined so many people… we fought for 4 hours today. he still insists he never hurt me. how can he even think that. warped.
March 17, 2012 at 5:09 am #31153kimberelyMemberthey will never understand they have hurt us until they decide to own their addiction and I mean truly own it and this is done by their actions which will not require words.
March 17, 2012 at 5:35 am #31154julieParticipantPlease listen to the song “beautiful” by Mercy Me..
Days will come and you don’t have the strength…
and all you hear is that you aren’t worth anything.
Wondering if you ever could be loved
and if they truly saw your heart, they’d see too much…. You are beautiful… You’re beautiful…….March 17, 2012 at 10:44 am #31155ksondyParticipantThis song is emotional for me: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cu7QvOQKcKk&feature=youtube_gdata_player
March 17, 2012 at 11:25 am #31156marchParticipantMarch 17, 2012 at 11:35 am #31157marchParticipantHeidi, your 16-year-old wins the prize.
March 17, 2012 at 11:43 am #31158harmony1ParticipantLadies those songs helped to shed my tears (it has been so hard for me to cry, as my rage is just overwhelming)
Crying help to purify the soulMarch 17, 2012 at 1:20 pm #31159silver-liningParticipantIncidently, I have that Dixie Chicks CD. I love EVERY song on there!! It’s really good and I would highly recommend it! I have a hard time relating that song to SA, because I know what it was really written about. However, I have plenty of other SA songs to choose from, when I’m in the mood!!
March 17, 2012 at 1:33 pm #31160hadj608Participantsl – funny side note. we have a hokey 4th of july parade every year on the island and vote for the floats. One year someones float was the chixie dicks and it was 3 old guys wearing long blonde wigs and dresses. It was so funny. – so if you need a float idea this year….
March 17, 2012 at 8:35 pm #31161kimberelyMemberSl I figured there was another meaning to the song but it has so many phrases which were mirroring my feelings.
March 17, 2012 at 10:02 pm #31162ksondyParticipantfor-now
songs are a form of art… the only meaning that matters is the listners.March 18, 2012 at 1:04 am #31163kimberelyMemberYou want one for the hubby to hear?? The man I want to be by Chris Young….omg, we all long for those words….very powerful!
March 18, 2012 at 1:29 am #31164napParticipantThe song that best describes the 25 years of marriage to my xSah is. ‘The Hokey Pokey’.
March 18, 2012 at 5:14 pm #31165kimberelyMemberOk Nap that made me laugh, you are so right.
March 18, 2012 at 5:34 pm #31166ksondyParticipantNap, hahaha. How about ring around the rosie? After all, one of the beliefs is that it is referring to the plaque!
March 20, 2012 at 3:27 pm #31167silver-liningParticipantNot to mention their Rosie probably DOES have a ring around it….from being yanked on a gazillion times. Eeww…
March 20, 2012 at 3:29 pm #31168silver-liningParticipantWait! Rosie is their hand!!! Still….a ring around the hand from gripping too right??? Double Eeww…
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