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I found out the other day that he has a profile on Match.com. He’s 63 but says he’s 57. His status is divorced but we’re separated. I told him I knew he was on the site and he denied it. So I created a profile and sent him a wink. Couldn’t talk his way out that one! Meanwhile, he calls me on the phone crying every day that he can’t stand his life without me and wants to come home. I asked him why in the world are you dating? His answer is he doesn’t want to be alone.
I keep thinking that someone will say “Oh, yes! My husband is different! He really was not like the rest! Well, sadly he showed up at my door and had 3 bottles of Kendall Jackson wine in his arms. just 20 minutes ago..said he misses the old times with us and wants me to experience it. We used to sit on the porch and talk.
After hearing your responses there is no ‘one more time’. I was feeling weak and needed the rallying of the troops! So glad I found you. I’m hearing more and more that there are no coincidences and that I was guided here. I believe it..
Thanks Daisy for telling me the straight out truth. I’m so used to being lied to that this is refreshing.
Bev, you cut right to the chase and I love you for that. In my heart, I already know the truth and for some stupid reason I cling and cling and I cling! I believe it’s mostly out of fear and I suspect i’m right.
Ty Daisy and Bev…i needed to hear it from you. I need that kick in the ass. My son usually does that but he’s in Maine for a week so i’m on my own. And guess what? He’s autistic and knows right from wrong. He’s 29 on Sept 5, and tells me all the time that my H is not what I think.
Sierra…this is exactly what I was referring to when I said my SAH treats me like a queen but leads a sick double life. It does quite a number on your head. I have eerily similar letters that he wrote me..not quite as poetic as yours but just as nauseating.
Thanks so much for all your caring responses. You truly are amazing women and it’s comforting to know I have a place to go and vent without being judged! xo
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When a person damages somebody so emotionally, that they are considered “terrorized” by that person. ierra, I love your term emotional terriorism.Because it’s bullshit. There is no correlation between childhood stuff and hookers. I had a rotten childhood too, but you don’t see me screwing everything in sight because i’m damaged. I’ll stick to my Kendall Jackson Cardonnay!
Bev I don’t believe for a second he’s a SA. He’s using that now as justification for his acting out? Oh, BTW he has a terrible childhood! haha
I woke up early on Thanksgiving Morning 2008 and went on the computer to check my e-mail. Moved the mouse and his profile pic came up? Couldn’t believe what I was seeing. Had no clue. I found e-mails from women, men, Gays, transvestites, prostitutes and foreign countries. I thought I was going to have a heart attack. I read enough then went to confront him. He denied everything and said that pic wasn’t him. Somebody hacked his e-mail. It’s the same old crap and i’m not even going to tell you the rest of the story because you already know it. I will tell you NAP, Lynng2 and sierra you justified in my mind what I already knew. Thanks so much!
