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Thanks a million for everything J!

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Oh, in regards to trusting him……..

HAAAAAHAHAHAAAAAHAHAAAAAAAAHAHAAAAAAAHAAAAAAAHAAAHAAAAAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Fuck that!

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AB, i am so glad you have a legal advocate to give wt a lashing.
GAME OVER.
Except the real hurt he has caused by using the love between you as a tool and weapon to obtain what HE want. Yeah it hurts big time.

To this day I think wow………did SA RAT plan my financial destruction while blaming me from the beginning. Makes me sick to my stomach because it could be true.

One day AB, THEY BECOME JUST YESTERDAY’s BAD NEWS.

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Yes, tell us about the job. 🙂

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I have had left arm pain on and off. Have had it checked out and had major surgery since it began.

Funny, the medical community just cannot explain it.

I can.

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🙂

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Thx Cat.

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As per usual, great information and advice from the hood.

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Put things back on track with the help of your lawyer?

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Go sister. Stay focused and execute!

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I am learning so much about lemons and all the rest.

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I tell people he had a double life. Fuck that!

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Great to hear from you SF. Keep on going girl. You are on your way out of the swamp!

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Only read the first few posts and needed to skip forward to chime in.

Knock it the fuck off!!!!!

Totally understand how hard it is to break things off. It is the abuse that makes it so hard.

Stick with the hood and stay away from the severely abusive asshole SA! Make him yesterday’s bad news.

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Post divorce and recently I have been able to ignore old dates and places that used to be so meaningful. The triggers are dissipating at long last.

Giving energy to these things now seems like an utter waste of time. Whilst before they would grab me like hands around my neck.

I have been on the Big Island of Hawaii for about 2 weeks which is where SA RAT and I came many times and were married here.

Guess what? Who the fuck cares? I don’t!!!!!!! My kids don’t. No one else matters. Haaaaaaaaa! GAME OVER.

Healing happens in the hood!

LIza….your the bomb!!!!!!! SA wasted decades of your devotion only for you to be all polished up for SOS and ? Go girl. Throw that MFSOB an anchor.

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Long beach walks should be just the dose of medicine you need right now.
Enjoy every moment!

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Absurd mess. Step away.

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So sorry Teri. You deserve so much better.

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Excellent!

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Focus on you and how you feel. Protect every aspect of your life. He wont, he has shown you that he wont. That is who he is. Hard to believe. Trust me I know. Sucks rocks to be sure.

Stick with the hood. We know of,which we speak.
So very sorry for your pain.

Desiree

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Bummer. Big. Heal we must somehow. Someway.

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Wow! Thx.
Pondering the truth………

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More Bday wishes from me!!!!
So very proud of you and your life direction!
Much love and support,
Desiree

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Wecome. Sorry for the mess you are in as the pain and confusion is profound. Your H did not just have sex outside of marrisge vows and put you at risk for STDs, he lied to you for years which did not allow you to make decisions to protect yourself. Now is the time to do that, but dont tell him. His reaction may suprise you. Many of us have been financially abused after all the lies.

We understand. Read all you can here snd take super good care of you and the girls while you figure out your next steps.

Support and hugs,
Desiree

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