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| User name | ksondy |
| Nickname | ksondy |
| Tell Us Why You Are Joining | My husband is a sex addict. |
| First name | Kim |
| Your State | TX |
About Me
| City | Plano |
| Year of Birth | 1970-09-09 |
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| About Me | I love reading, watch the Saints and am hoping to go back to school next year. I used to own a graphic and web design business. I have three wonderful kids. Two 14 year old daughters, an 18 year old daugter, a 22 yo son, a 21 yo son and a grandchild on the way. |
| My Story | Married 10 years ago in June 2002. Husband is a SA. I found out some things in June 2010 when the original bomb was dropped. It was my anniversary gift. Then there was another explosion two months after that as a birthday gift. I guess that was the equivalent to an addict bottoming out but it was our marriage that hit rock bottom. When sobriety gets difficult or frustrating, he snaps and asked for a divorce. Like many others, it has all been a shock. 2 years ago I was happy with my life, my home, my family, my husband, my marriage and myself. My life and my husband were the closest thing to perfect in my foolish mind. It’s amazing how it shattered in an instant. My husband claims to be 19 months ‘sober”. Is he? No clue. Even if he is, for how long? Is there even such a thing as sex addiction or it he just a lying, selfish betraying %&$%? Beats me. I live my life in limbo and am not sure of anything anymore and never know what to believe. Waiting for the next time he “snaps.” He seems to be on the perfect path to recovery. However I thought I had a perfect marriage at one time. Look how wrong I was. The only things I “know” anymore are that my marriage was a fraud, I don’t trust my husband and I can’t truly believe a word he says. And I KNOW this is an awful way to live. |