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Thought it might be fun to tell some of the most uncredible lies you have heard come out of your SA’s mouths.
It is hard for me to pick, but this last week was a good topper.
I recorded “Young and the Restless.” Keep in mind I have not recorded any shows since moving into this house in September.
When I went to play the show, there were 5 others pre-recorded – all the 5 p.m. News. Steve is not supposed to be watching any TV at all because of prior triggers, and this is supposedly his decision. However, the news is a program he enjoyed watching the most.
Now, here comes the funny part. I confronted him. He was ready for me, because he knew I had recorded a show. His answers were:
1.” You are the only one with the TV controls- I never use
them.”
2. “The news is the last thing I would record.” (I told him
there must be a ghost in the house doing this, since we
are the only ones that live here.)3. “Maybe your family did it when they were here on Xmas.”
(The shows were recorded for the 24th-28th. He said,
“They were here at 5:00 p.m.”) Ya, again, right! We were
all in the great room together and the TV was never on.
Also, they were here on Xmas day – not Eve. The 1st
recording was set for 5:00 on Xmas Eve.
( I was gone during the afternoon of Xmas Eve. I was
picking up things for the Xmas day dinner. Great
opportunity for him to do it. )4. “I didn’t do it.” – became angry and defensive.
5. “Maybe Dan and Kyle (My brother-in law and nephew) did
so while downstairs in the rec room watching TV.” Ya
right like they would record the news on our TV set. Plus,
they were here on Thanksgiving – not Xmas.I told him he was caught by the fickle finger of fate, because he wasn’t expecting me to be recording a TV show. He knew he was safe, because I would never see it unless
I would be recording, and I never have since living here.HE IS STILL STICKING BY HIS STORY!!
I asked him how he can look me straight in the eye and lie.
His eyes became “glassy looking,” and he denied it again!!The fun and games of living with an SA. I just don’t get how, if they know they are caught, can still continue with the fascade of the story they create.
Hugs to everyone – Happy New Year.my second d-day he was going to a meeting…………came home the next moring after spending 500.oo at strip club and told me he changed his mind.
my husband: “Before we went to the bars, I took my wedding ring off and I took a viagra.” confession
Later in the argument….”I was not looking to hook up with anybody” !!!
When I asked what he did with a prostitute for 2 hrs and paid $500.00 for on a business trip, “Well, she gave me a really great massage”.
Said with COMPLETE sincerity on more than one occasion regarding infidelity, “I could NEVER cheat on you, Karen, because I would see the faces of my children.”
“It’s not like I actually enjoy it. I mean, some people light special candles and use scented oils”. The 5 start hotel is just incidental.
“I’ve never searched for it, I only click on what comes through my junk mail to make sure the kids won’t accidentally open something harmful.” Aw, what a good daddy.
“I only think of them when I am masturbating to them. When I’m with you, I only think of you”. Then why are your eyes closed?
“I haven’t done it for as long as I can remember.” Short memory, I guess.We have to laugh right?
“I’m Trying” – he used this for everything. He was not trying, trying to lie and evade he was.
I agree with ZG “i love you” , my h said it all the time. The other lies were the hugs and kisses.
My cell phone has bad reception.
Porn on the computer – it wasn’t me.
Okay i did it for a couple minutes – i missed you so much.
Okay – it was me the whole time –
However he said he would never do it again – lies.I only watch for about 5 minutes a couple times a week when the baby is sleeping.
When he was caught in the a.m. and the baby was not sleeping – It was like i could not stop and soemthing in my head was screaming to sop – what your conscience – try listening to it for once a-hole. More lies.
Mine…the porn on his computer at work (really out in the open) was because all the employees must have been looking at porn – wasn’t me. I mean really, every day – even after hours?
I just wanted to feel alive – I wished he were dead.
Mine answered my questions with “I don’t know”. Couldn’t get any explanations of his behavior. He didn’t even try to make excuses. He said he “honestly” didn’t know why he did what he did. Honestly? Not that any other answer would be any less frustrating but I couldn’t believe anything he said.
I was pissed. Still am when I look back and think about it.
Mine said: “Well, I only had 5 come to the house for sex, well that’s not exactly true, one gal came over twice, so it was only 6 times.”. (WTF????????)
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