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since i found out about all my partner crap. i see him in such a different way. how for years he would say i thought about you allot today. i would feel that lift, he missed me, he cares about me. now i know he walks out the door and i no longer exist in his world. its weird he will still say the same thing he did before and i now know his saying, comments are just generic. they never really say anything. now that you know about their secret life what are their words saying to you now……
heres another line he used you completed my life- he means now i look normal to the world. since i found out every time he said something i could hear in my head the real wordsHa! lol! Yes I get these as well! Is there an SA book they read from? I am going to ask my SA what he is thinking when he says these things. In all honesty I think they mean it. Maybe because we help them feel normal, maybe because they feel so bad about themselves we are their safety so they truely mean it when they say it. Funny, unlike you I haven’t had the ‘missed you today’ since dday. I will let you know the answer.
xoHow about all those sweet calls in the middle of the day, just to see ‘how your day is going.’ Now I know they were really to make sure I was safely at work and not out and about where I could catch him.
the more i think about this i believe that they know exactly what they say and do. i have been raising children since i was 11. long story anyway we know they are stuck a little boy, well when a child lies it to cover something they do wrong. they know it wrong so they lie. i feel the sa knows with out any doubt its wrong what they are doing so they do not feel guilt nor do they feel anything other than not getting caught. there is not guilt maybe some shame that we know they do what they do, not the shame of the act. kind of like when i find one of the young kids picking their nose they are so afraid one of the other kids will know what they did. it disgusting and they never want anyone to know. that is my take on the words and lies. they know exactly what they do and say but it only to cover their asses nothing more. i told him once he stole my life twice the one i lived when we meet and the one he promised me.
I missed you today – i got horny and masturbated to porn. I think that is what the code is.
Calling to say hi! Just went to the porn shop and got new porn and making sure you are not coming home anytime soon.My H works third shift from home. He always came back to the bedroom for “just one more kiss.” He was actually checking up on me to if it was safe or not.
Katt, this is another one of your brilliant posts.
I’ve been thinking about the whole “generic” brand. I think the words are generic because in those moments, we are generic to them–we don’t mean anything either.p.s. way to go on the perfume thing. It doesn’t matter whether you like it. It’s that you did it. If you can do that, you can do the next thing that will be out of your comfort zone. Eventually you will like the results, and from then on, there’s no stopping you.
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