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Hi NAP – Just purchase your ticket and come and have fun!!!! You deserve it. Breat the same old same old…and come and have a blast. I never have taken a trip just for me, if it was not related to education…snore, so come and take a trip just for you!
FloraYes Nap. Beg, borrow, steal. 😉 Hit your (“careless” AND clueless LOL) Mom up for a ticket. Just do it.
The boxes will wait.
pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease??? ;;)
Thank you for wanting me to come and I want to cry when I think about you all being together. To be honest, I just don’t have the wherewithal to make the trip. Having much difficulty with being overwhelmed and anxiety. I think they used to call it “not functioning to task” . I’m sorry I’m going to go cry now……
Awww…NAP…I’m crying with you. :((
To be honest, I don’t know how I have the wherewithal to make the trip. I’m a little freaked out, hoping my kids have to get to where they should be. Hopefully SA steps up to the plate. I also think I’m in a holding pattern now, so my emotions are not totally spent. And of course, SL would probably beat me silly if I didn’t go.
At the very least, can we do a speakerphone call? Do you skype?Much love, my sister!
ZGZgirl – how right you are! Don’t even THINK about it! Those kids will be fine for a few days!! We can stalk your SA every hour on the hour if we have to – to get the kids picked up or delivered or whatever!!!!
Oh Nap,
The nice side of me so understands your dilemma!! The selfish side soooooooooo wants you to come!!!! You still have a few days to decide!!! I promise you, if you make it, it will be the most relaxing weekend EVER!! Nothing to be stressed over except maybe the plane ride- but even that isn’t a big deal!! Would it help if I mentioned that I have Zanex??? Is that how you spell it!??? Xanex??? Ha! I don’t even know!! But I know I have some!!! LOL!!! It’s yours for the asking!!If you can put yourself on that plane and walk yourself off- that is ALL you have to do!! We will be at the door to pick you up, whisk you away, feed you, drink you, drug you, (LOL), (I hope no one is a cop!!!!), hug you, hold you and by all means – make you laugh till you cry!! If you can possibly scrape up the energy – PLEASE COME!! You won’t be sorry!!!
But… One the other hand, if you simply can NOT make it, we will all be VERY sad, but of course understand! You are very dear to all of us and your health and well being will always come first!! So, all joking aside, do what’s best for YOU!!
BUT PLEASE COME!!!!!! Lol!!! XO!!
Hi NAP,
I do agree also. I am a little nervous. Flying somewhere without my kids and family…and by myself. And a trip just for me feels so foreign and maybe even a little selfish and out there for me. I am nervous too, however i will get over it. Because i think the trip itself and going to meet all these ladies…will be well worth it. I don’t have the time or the energy, and i hope that i won’t be to tired or overloaded…however i think meeting everyone will be a refreshing break from it all. And i may feel better after it….heck we could maybe celebrate me finally being divorced…which may happen on thursday right before this weekend.Anyway..would love to meet you inperson. In don;t think we will regret this.
Love,
FloraIts a big MAY. this divorce has been one big mess after another. So don’t anyone get to excited yet.
@Silver,
Laughing My FUCKING Ass OFF!!! (if only it WERE getting some fucking) :/
Oh, BTW, in my dating days, I heard from many, many cops– married cops.
Yes, indeed. Sex addicts come in ALL walks of life. Don’t think a little Xanax given to a friend would phase any of ’em.
I also went through some days when I felt that I would not be able to laugh or even think about anything but the overwhelming pain. So, the thought of being with y’all did feel impossible. But then, something told me, that this is not to be missed. The money won’t be missed. It’ll be made up elsewhere. OH! that reminds me. I just took a very big step. (for me! I’ll make a new post.)
Again, Nap, you know we WANT you there. You have been the glue (I wish there was a better word) 😉 that’s bound us together with your many, many incredible and insightful posts– your warm, never ending friendship, your easy sense of humor, and incredible strength in the face of overwhelming adversity.
You are an angel and a badass and I am absolutely more proud than I can possibly say, to call you my friend.
Love,
L
PS: @Flora— I’ll keep the excitement to a dull ROAR! 😀
Nap I am going to give you something to think about for a change!!
Is flying to Indiana and meeting up with a bunch of people you never actually met before totally out of character for you?
Would your kids freak out a little that you would have the nerve to do such a thing?
In divorce did you think there are going to be lots of new experiences, some that may be out of your comfort zone?
Would you feel stronger and empowered if you could set aside your obstacles for 48 hours and “just do it”?
Would your sa fly half way across the country to sleep with a bunch of strangers?
Are there many places you can go where you will be unconditionally loved the moment you are met?
And do you want to bet that I snore louder than you?
No pressure nap, ~remember the love is unconditional.
I was kind of freaked out meeting sl, especially the night before. I was nervous for nothing, and I am so glad she drove up. The whole scene was out of character for me ~ and I had a blast!
hugs
HeidiNAP,
You obviously have to make your own informed decision…BUT we could just cry and love you up…laugh and eat!
You have been an integral part of this sisterhood. We want to be there for you too. Love ya, b
Thank you all for the kind posts. My brain has been malfunctioning and it’s day to day right now. Out of the blue, my anxiety can get triggered and some days Ill be doing just fine and then I freeze up for hours, then I’ll pop out of it. I have PTSD pretty badly and am on medication and started a new one today. I have 2 therapists and my Md. I’m really slow and I get overwhelmed easily. It’s very frustrating because I would love to come but feel too unstable right now. I hope you understand…..love ya all, Nap
NAP,
We totally understand and wish it was easier for you on a day to day basis. Love ya girl, B. TrayedDeb,
Could you post that you are going on the retreat/slumber party on the post with head-counts? ThanksI cried for you today. I so look forward to meeting you in person and am so glad we got a chance to talk.
Much love, B.NAP, I am so sorry for the pain you are going through, and I really hate your SA. I’m not a person that hates easily, either.
Thanks ZG, yes he’s easy to hate. He’s really a very ill person with a really bad addiction.
For me, I figure if I made it this far I’ll probably make it all the way…..I’ll never let anyone treat me that way again ever! No one deserves it and the best thing to do it totally avoid them if you can.
Love, Nap
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