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I appreciate that, Karen, and Diane, and everyone. I am gasping for air, here, as I’m sure you all have experienced before. Just thinking that I am so close to cracking that I need to use what little inertia I have left to get that proof and get the divorce in process before I am no longer capable of stringing three words together into a sentence. So, whatever their objective might be, I’ve got my own. Losing traction very quickly, and feeling I’ll be putty in ANYONE’s hands before long. Blubbering and wringing hands and the whole nine yards.
Oh lynn,I am so sorry you’re dealing with this never-ending shit storm. Thinking of you and sending you strength to weather this storm. Love, Liza
I know Lynn. We are all behind you and we will be here no matter what happens tomorrow. If you have drugs try to get some rest tonight. Red wine works but u don’t want to be sick tomorrow.Take a deep breath and keep the faith. Karen xx
lynng- I know all of this is hard for you, and I truly feel for you. Maybe you should have a couple of Vodka tonics to calm you down a bit. Not advocating drinking, but I know when I was the most frustrated, hurt, and angry, it was nice and calming.
I will be thinking of you tomorrow, and my thoughts and prayers, as well.
Lots of love coming your way.Okay Lynn, maybe if you focus solely on the purpose of getting adultery evidence you will get through this. However you come out the other end, we will still be here. Thanks for telling us what’s a stake and why. Like Pam, I hope you get something you can pin on him. I understand what you are trying to accomplish and how important it is.
So do what you need to do. Light goes with you.
D. big hug.I, too, am sending energy, good thoughts your way. Sending some things his way also, but not the same.
It does help a lot to know all you beautiful ladies are sending such love and support. I am just going to walk in there with my head held high and walk out exactly the same, regardless of what happens. We all deserve some level of dignity in this.
lynn please know i will have you in my thoughts tomorrow. i really do hope you get everything you need. you would think at some point you could catch a break. my heart breaks for you
much love kattKaren makes a good point to ponder. They are like children… empty threats reinforce their behavior. WHY are we parenting our husbands?
I think Sharron makes a great point too. I doubt it’s possible to ever believe anything concerning them 100%.
I thought polygraph results were not admissible in court unless both parties agree? Are you sure this will actually benefit you in any way?
Have you checked on legal aid in your state? I received an attorney free of charge because I was a low income single mom. The downside was they would only represent me as a defendant not a plaintiff. If you find yourself in a situation where you just need to get OUT though and can’t afford an attorney this may be an option for you if he files against you.
With this going on tomorrow and the show airing on Thursday; you have got to be on emotional overload. You have such strength. I am confident you can do it. But you shouldn’t have to and I wish you didn’t have to. Hang in there.
Ok, I came up with 5 pages of questions. And realized I don’t care about the answers to any of them. H just came down and asked if I was coming to bed. I took off my wedding band (engagement ring given back two months ago) and put it on the desk between us. He asked “what’s this” and I said “a lie”. H sat there for a while and stared at me, and then asked me to put it back on and I said no. He asked again and I said “maybe depending on what you have to say tomorrow, but just the fact that I have to go through this means it was all a lie.” H said, ‘no, I’m completely devoted to you”.
Right. I wonder when that happened.
He’s gone off to bed now. I’m just sitting here dreading morning and shaking like a leaf.
Hi Lynn,
I swear I’m sitting here shaking right with you! Damnit, I hate that you are going through all of this right now. I hate your state (wherever it is that you live!) and their stupid divorce laws, I hate your SA, I hate the whole polygraph concept, (how dumb, we ALL know they lie) and I especially hate the hurt in your heart. 🙁 I wish there was something we could do for you. Of course, prayers, support, love…. But I’m wishing for a magic wand to make it all go away.
As its been stated, we will be here for you as soon as you need us! And listen, sometimes these things aren’t as bad as we think- what I mean is, we can triple analyze shit and worry and fret till the cows come home- and then it ends up not being impossible in the end. There is always Devine intervention, smart sister’s with great ideas, our own strength, and every now and then even a “break” thrown into the mix. Just take tomorrow (today?) one hour at a time. Deep breaths. You are smart, beautiful, resourceful, and a great Mom. You have an army of sisters behind you. (God bless Marie for saying that to me at the time I needed it most)!
No matter WHAT happens tomorrow- we will see you through this thing. If we have to start a Lynng fund raiser, then we will. We will get out you out of this mess if no one else can. You are an awesome sister and we all love you and will help and support you in all ways possible. Hell yes, hold your head up high! You have NOTHING to be ashamed of. I don’t care if “he” comes out smelling like a rose, we will still sniff out the rat, one way or another!!
Much love to you! Hang in there, dear sister!!!
Love,SL
Ok sisters, here goes. Have to prepare dinner and go get my daughter from school and then it’s off to the polygraph.
You all are lifesavers.
Thinking of you, Lynn. You really do have so much inner strength. You have done so much in a short amount of time, in excruciating circumstances, that shows what a courageous woman you are. xoxo
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